Friday 30 November 2018

Celebrating our 11th Wedding Anniversary at HaiDiLao

On Wednesday, wifey and I celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary at HaiDiLao (Vivocity) . That was the very first time wifey tried HDL and I am glad to be the one she went with.






It was a good lunch date as we managed to spend some private moments together. After lunch we went to shop for dearie's backpack and also at Mothercare and got Kai his Christmas present which is a water toy. Hope he will like it.


We headed back home after a simple dinner at Mcdonald's.


A good time to remind ourselves on our wedding verse :

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  1 Corinthians 13:4-7






 

Friday 16 November 2018

Simple Pleasure

Wifey bought me this when she went for her survey yesterday. It was delicious, great way to start off the day.


Thank you wifey..



I am quite easily satisfied...

Thursday 13 September 2018

Unseen

Just finished reading this book, the second book by Sara Hagerty.


I enjoyed her style of writing in her first book Every Bitter Thing is Sweet, so I ordered this once it hits the shelf.


The primary theme of this book revolves around the act of Mary Magdalene pouring expensive perfume at the feet of Jesus (in John 12:1-8). To many who witnessed what she did, it was an extravagant waste but to Mary, it was worship.


Sara wrote that as we spent our years in season of hiddenness, nothing is ever wasted. Those barren years, those tears that has been shared privately, the.painful experiences, mundane settings and repetitive tasks that we have been doing day after day which no one noticed, God sees them all.


We have been invited to those moments and as we fix our eyes on Jesus despite how others sees us, we grow deeper and more intimate with Him.


The message is simple but it is becoming more relevant as social media threatened to infiltrate our lives from all angles, with many addicted to the approval of man and their "likes" on facebook. This book remind us to take a step back and appreciate the private moments where there is nothing to post and nothing to boast.


 






Wednesday 12 September 2018

My Contribution to Ministry of Football (MOF) - Grassroot Project

Football – the beginning

My love affair with football started in the year 1989. I was captivated by the Road to Wembley tune and the first game I remembered watching on television was the FA Cup final between Merseyside rivals Liverpool and Everton.




The pulsating match ended 3-2 after extra time. Ian Rush and his lookalike John Aldridge were the heroes on that day. That was also the year the Hillsborough Tragedy occurred and it changed the landscape of English football as well as Liverpool’s history forever.

I became a fan of the reds and when we lost the league title to Arsenal with a last gasp Michael Thomas’ goal the following year, I was heartbroken. Incidentally, Liverpool haven’t won the league title since then.

My dad fuelled my passion for football by buying me “SHOOT”,“MATCH” and sometimes 90 Minutes Magazines weekly from the Indian mama shop at Ghim Moh market then. It cost $2.70 and at that time, quite a princely amount. Before internet and ESPN, that was where I read about the match reports, players’ ratings and interviews of all my favourite footballers. The bonus was of course, the centrefold Team photo.






As we watched them play, me and my neighbours would imitate John Barnes, Paul Gascoigne, Stuart Pearce etc… and have our own games barefooted at the void deck. Starting off with plastic balls, we eventually upgraded to Addidas tango and smashed several lightings along the way, running away when we saw the police car approaching.

Manchester United was turning out to be a force then and a dynasty ensued under Sir Alex Ferguson. Watching them play it really reflected their belief that “we never get beaten, we just ran out of time” and they did knock Liverpool off their “**** perch”

Other than English football, I was also following Serie A because it was shown on TV, but found them a bit boring as it was a more defensive and tactical league. The likes of Napoli, AC Milan, Inter and Sampdoria were mostly churning out dull 1-0 and 0-0 results week after week.

Josko Spanjic & Boris Lukic and the semi pro league.

On to the local scene, in the late 80’s I clearly remembered we had 2 Foreigners in our semi pro team, they were rather average and so was our team. We would win a game and lose the next one. This pattern will continue year after year.

Our players then were people like David Lee, D Tokijan, Hashnim Haron, Deveraj Doraisamy etc… we were wearing the white Toyota jersey and I was thinking how easily they got dirty on the rainy pitch.  
It was a relatively dull and boring era for Singapore football.

Drinks Culli Pak Popiah

In the 90s, I started going to the National Stadium with my dad to catch Malaysia Cup games when I was in Secondary school. I am sure many Singaporeans have sweet nostalgic memories of our old Kallang Stadium. Our own Old Lady.

Every Saturday brought new excitement, especially so if giants like Selengor, Kedah, Pahang came to play. Joe Dorai and The New Paper would drum up support throughout the week by hyping up the weekend matches and tickets will be sold out within a day. No, a few hours.  


this is how the ticket look like - hot property!


The noise inside the stadium, the Kallang Roar (created by collectively stamping our feet) and the Kallang wave formed fond memories even as I look back now as a 40-year-old. Who can forget queueing behind so many uncles just to use the flooded urinal during half time and navigating through thick acrid cigarette smoke to go back to my bench?

On the pitch, we have probably the best Foreign Talent Singapore has ever welcomed in Abbas Saad and Alistair Edwards (I also remembered a certain Craig Forster and he was a decent player and very good looking, then there were “colourful” characters like Michael Vana and Sandro Radun who were involved in match fixing allegations) as they mesmerized the 55000 weekly with their charisma and skill.

One of the best game I witnessed was the 3-2 defeat by Myanmar in the 1993 SEA games. Steven Tan tried his best to rescue us but Lim Tong Hai’s own goals did real damage to our medal hope.

With the return of Fandi, Malek Awab from KL together with oppa Jang Jung, we suddenly had a very impressive team which reached their peak as they trashed Pahang in the Shah Alam 4-0!

I didn’t make the trip down there but cannot forget how the HDB blocks shook and reverberated with shouts of joy as we absolutely obliterated our rival, marshalled by Alan Davidson and Scott Ollerenshaw and plummeted them with goals after goals.

The result was unexpected but much welcomed as we brought the cup home one last time.

Though not in the team that won the Malaysia Cup, Sundramoorthy scored one of the best goal ever witnessed at the National Stadium with his overhead kick against Brunei in a 6-0 victory.

For all their exploits on the pitch, the Lions still found time to release an album and I remembered it goes something like, up and down left and right, Malek can criss cross, Sundram is gonna razzle dazzle you…” ah fun times indeed for Singapore soccer.

Even as I type, the memories of household names like captain Nazri Nasir, Lee Man Hon with his sweet left foot, the disciplined Kadir Yahya bombing down the wings and the late Russian Tank Borhan Abu Samah came flooding back.

There is also a certain Zulklifli Katayoho who has the natural inclination to send his shots to the top tier of the National Stadium.

Four Stars Lion

Under Raddy Abramovic, the lions won the AFC Suzuki Cup 4 times. Though very proud of their achievements, I do not have much recollection of most of those competition as they were mostly disciplined performances rather than flair that won us those ASEAN titles.

The new group of players who were involved were Hariss Harun, Nor Alam Shah, Baihakki Khaizan, Sharil Ishak and Izwan Mahmud and many are still actively playing right now.

I do remember Thailand threatening to walk out midway through one of the game against us.

Tiong Bahru United

After winning the 1994 Malaysia cup, Singapore pulled out of the competition, forming their own S League. As I am staying at Queenstown, I started supporting Tiong Bahru United who played their home matches at the Queenstown Stadium.

Tiong Bahru United’s roster included familiar names like Tong Hai, Steven Tan, S Subramani and was coached by Robert Alberts the Dutchman who led Kedah to League and cup titles. The S League then was drawing healthy crowds of about 3000+ to the neighbourhood stadium and teams had good foreigners like Tawan Sripan, Jures Eras, Marco Kraljevic to name but a few.

I followed Tiong Bahru Uniited FC to away games as well and bought their jersey to wear with much pride. The club later changed their name to Tanjong Pagar United FC and won the Singapore and League cup in 1998 under Tohari Paijan. We had Nicodeme Boucher, Dragan Talagic, Majid Motlagh. It was really a good team that just lost narrowly to SAFFC in the league race.

Right now, S League is in the doldrums and Tanjong Pagar United has already pulled out of the competition for quite a few years.  It is my hope that the competition will have a fresh injection of funds and ideas. A major revamp is long overdue.

Contributed by
Marc Ong

Tuesday 4 September 2018

A Logo

Was playing around with MS Paint and thought of designing a logo for this blog...




Recently a few friends started having their own business, so I was thinking about that too.


However, I do not know what kind of business to go into which has a low barrier of entry, low cost and the area which I can value add.




But if I ever have my own business, I will call also call it the First garden and this logo shall be my company's logo.  :o)


Its a start isn't it...



A very amateurish one




Thursday 28 June 2018

Sum Where Out There

Yesterday, I had a gathering with Roy and Sebby @ Sum Kee .



I have always wanted to try that place but didn't really get the chance to do so. So when suggesting for the meet up location, we decided to have it there this time round.


It has been a really long time since I saw them. The feeling was SSBD (Same Same But Different ) . We connected very easily even with such a long hiatus and were mostly on the same wavelength after spending so many years as bunkmates. We are extremely comfortable with each other.


Those private, familiar jokes flowed easily. However, there are also some changes in personality/lifestyle like Roy's preference for smaller quantity of food *gasp* and Sebby taking the bus.


Different experiences over the years have also shaped us as individuals.


We caught up and updated each other on our life, family, job, world cup, soccer, Uber/Grab and spoke about start ups etc... remembering we almost started a drink business many years ago. It could have been a unicorn as Sebby ruefully commented.


Oh yes, food was quite good. We ordered the Ultraman Chicken, Hor Fun, Coffee Ribs, Four Seasons Beans, Pumpkin Tofu and a Bi Feng Gang Prawn (Off - menu item) introduced to us by auntie. She seemed very proud of that dish and kept asking if it was good. It was. All the good food, washed down by 2 bottles of beer and the total cost is around $99.


There was another table behind us full of uncles reminiscing about the past, we sort of see glimpses of ourselves in them, 20 years later...


Our dinner lasted around 3 hours and after that Roy sent me home.


Thank God wifey is looking after Kai at home and that allowed me some time off for this gathering. when I reached home wifey asked if my tank was being refilled. My answer was a definite YES.











Tuesday 26 June 2018

Friday 22 June 2018

A Meaningful and Fulfilling Birthday

Yesterday was my birthday. I started the day very early because I got to feed Kai. To be able to do this, is definitely one of my greatest blessing in life.
he loves to lie against our chest after feeding
I usually do not sleep long after Kai's 2nd feeding so I decided to go for my exercise which I have not been doing after Kai is born. As we now have a helper , that frees up a bit of our time and I am glad to resume my exercise routine gradually.
It was a nice morning and the air felt so fresh at 645am (seems like it rained the night before). Quite the perfect time for a workout.
The 1st view I have when I do sit-ups


This is the 2nd view
After exercise, I went up and wash up. Had my breakfast and QT and spent time with wifey and Kai.
Kai in his new smurf outfit from grandma-preparing to go out
We tried on the Tula Baby Carrier and this time round, Kai seems fine to sit in it. We have adjusted the carrier to a bigger setting and maybe it is more comfortable for him now as compared to a month ago when he refused to settle down.
love the bird prints and olive colour of the Soar carrier



Took a pic before going out


After washing up, we grabbed a taxi to NUH for wifey's gynae checkup. We had planned to bring Kai to visit the nurses of Ward 48 to show our appreciation and to let them take a look at the baby they have been "taking care" of, a few months back.
We also wrote them a little thank you card and presented a box of merci chocolate.
It was heart-warming to see those familiar nurses like Joan and Carissa carrying Kai. (too bad other nurses like Mimi, Jessa, MaryAnn, Huifang and Ameer were not there) They have played an important role in this whole pregnancy journey.
Ward 48 Nurses

After leaving ward 48, we headed to woman's clinic and managed to meet Nurse Yong. She was very surprised and happy to see wifey with Kai. She is another person whom have helped wifey in her pregnancy as she is the nurse whom wifey felt most comfortable with, administering those weekly progesterone injections. She is the gentlest of them all.

Nurse Yong with wifey and kai










with MOMMY@@!!



with Daddy@@


 
Mommy simply loves this blanket on him..

We got Prof Mahesh a single shot cappuccino from Starbucks before we got to see him.
To see Prof cuddling Kai close to him was such an endearing sight. We are most grateful to him walking with us through this journey.



He kept saying "so nice, so nice..."









After leaving NUH, we took the train over to Star Vista with the intention to have dinner at Sazeirya. To our disappointment, it was closed due to their ordering system being down. We were famished, so in the end we settled our dinner at Texas Chicken and headed home after that.


At night, wifey secretly arranged for deb and folks to surprise me with a cake. In normal circumstances, I would have suspected she is up to something but because I was too tired after a long day, I didn't. I had wanted to go down to collect the mail when I saw them approaching and singing Happy Birthday...lol..





Very nice, what a perfect way to wind down the day, my 40th birthday. Thank you Jesus, wifey, Kai and my family who made it so special.











Wednesday 20 June 2018

Every Bitter Thing is Sweet


Currently, I am reading this book “Every Bitter Thing is Sweet” by Sara Hagerty.



 

I bought this book for wifey many years back but didn’t get down to reading it myself.

 

Recently, I started to do so as part of my morning routine devotion. (to fill up the gap of time which I have, after feeding Kai and before leaving for work.)

 

I am a third through it and I think this book is literature gold. It is indeed beautifully written, and I am learning to savour every word in it.

 

Sara Hagerty has that gift of expressing in words what many people may be feeling and thinking but are unable to verbalize out themselves.

 

I intend to read it slowly and not rush through it so that I allow those words to sink in.

 

I also bring the book out wherever I go so that I will not look at my mobile phone while commuting which I think is a waste of time and data.

Monday 18 June 2018

My Early Birthday Meal


😃⊙🌝😶😉😉Last Friday was a public holiday (Hari Raya Puasa) , wifey suggested that we go out nearby for a quick dinner to celebrate my birthday in advance.

 

I was surprised by wifey’s ad hoc plan but it was a very good idea.

 

It seems like a long time since we went out in such a manner. As much as we love Kai entering our life, we are thankful to be able to have some time to go on a simple date as well.

 

So with folks and our helper tending Kai for a while, we went over to Ma Maison @ Anchorpoint for our dinner.

 

We tried out wifey’s new Redmi Note 5’s camera and took some wefies..

I like the depth of field effects




 

And we had their meat platter
A Fathers' Day Special

we also tried their sausages, escargot and squid ink curry tendon.
This is just nice to fill us up



 I also had an Asahi
smooth

while wifey ordered her mango juice.

After dinner, we strolled back home…


to spend time with our darling Kai.


Thursday 14 June 2018

当下时光


I am not good with my Chinese, I always struggle to read Chinese books as well as articles.

 

However, I plan to expose myself more to reading Chinese so that I can be more confident and competent to guide Kai in his school work in the future.

 

For the past few months, I  have been listening to 96.3FM and  noticed that their use of the language is rather poetic, and it piqued my interest in the language more. After all, Xin Yao which the station often play is a celebration of the local Chinese language and culture.

 

Their tagline is 当下时光 which means the present moment . Their station ditty is very catchy and meaningful and  goes along the line that the present moment is the most beautiful.

 

Listening to that station I sometimes capture some nuggets of truth. Just a few days ago, a listener wrote in and say that the 2 major stealers of joy are   (Comparison) and ( to focus excessively on something, being calculative etc )

 

It is so true, when we compare with others or focus excessively on often unimportant matters, we find it very hard to appreciate the present.. what we have, how we are doing seemingly pales in comparison with what others put out in FB. This is very true in the season of parenthood where insecurities can be at its height.

 

That is why I am learning to wean off social media, barring the occasional scrolling of soccer news. I will continue to put down my thoughts and sharing in this platform which is more private and personal.

 

I want to learn to appreciate the present more.


Tuesday 5 June 2018

Walking Past the Biggest Prize

Walking Past the Biggest Prize ... lets come back stronger



Friday 25 May 2018

Sweet Glenda

This is Glenda.


 

Glenda is my third niece and she is a Barnabas.

 
She has been very encouraging over the years, with her prayers , little notes and simple greetings whenever we go up for dinner after work.




 

 
 



She is sensitive and often display a level of maturity beyond her tender age.
 
Her understanding glances says a lot even though she may not express it with words and she tends to retreat shyly into the background when the attention is on her.
 
She loves softly.

Thank you, Glenda for your unwavering support towards kooks and auntie Theresa, we love and appreciate you.